There is a phenomenon that is hyper-present in the Zeitgeist that we need to talk about. Many of the women I am speaking with are on the receiving end of this particular brand of "quiet abuse," and many of their partners or previous partners are utterly unaware that they are abusive in this way. These Paris Paloma lyrics do a great job of capturing the essence of it:
This is an awesome article, and the writer obviously has a talent for voicing words that need to be said.